She was so angry at this text. She said she wanted to never speak to this person again. It was all on line, and the fix was so easy.

She was adamant when she said to me, "Genie, men can't handle strong women, they fold like a deck of cards!" Honestly, not only was she adamant, but she was bitter about it.  It was causing real problems... I had to show her what the truth was.

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I was standing on a stage and they were inspecting me, writing notes of everything I did wrong. It was terrifying. I had to figure out how to step up fearlessly.

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He was furious, I was confused and frustrated and we were facing an 18 hour drive!  I needed help fast or this would be a disaster.  This is how I cut the tension. 

She'd put it off too long and she knew it, but this was a hard conversation that she didn't want to have with him; she was nervous.  She didn't have to be once she knew how to have a hard conversation.

He was so frustrated with her, it was the same old problem over and over again. He just wanted her to get over it and stop talking about it. He had no idea, that was what made it worse!

That's what she said, Genie, he's deeply hurt me and I can't get past it.  It was affecting her work, her family, her health.  She needed a breakthrough.  She got it!